To message another player in the game you can either click on the person you are trying to message and then the send message link.
You can also click the send message on main page then put in thier country id and select thier name.
To read a message click on your messages link
To reply to a message type your responce on the message they sent and hit send
If you get a message that is inapropriate you are to send a report, Simply click the report button on the right side of the message.
ANY foul or disgusting language will not be tolerated and you will be locked and or suspended